Romans 14:5-9 (ESV)
One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living.
Fair warning – a lot of what I write today is from John MacArthur. His commentary on this passage was super helpful, so I apologize in advance and give him the credit for the great ways of looking at what the Lord is saying through Paul here.
In Paul’s time (after the ascension of Jesus), though it was no longer required by God, the weak Jewish believer felt compelled to observe the Sabbath and other special days associated with Judaism –> “esteems one day” On the other hand, the weak Gentile wanted to separate himself from the special days of festivities associated with his former paganism because of its immorality and idolatry –> “esteems all days alike”. The mature believers were unaffected by these things. Each of us believers must follow our conscience in matters not specifically commanded or prohibited in Scripture. Since conscience is a God-given mechanism to warn and responds to the highest standard of moral law in the mind (Rom. 2:14–15), it is not sensible to train yourself to ignore it. Instead, we must respond to its compunctions and as we mature; by learning more, our mind will not alert it to those things that are not essential. –> “Each . . . should be fully convinced”
The next verse (6) talks about the strong believer eating whatever he pleases and thanks the Lord. The weak brother eats according to his ceremonial diet and thanks the Lord that he made a sacrifice on his behalf. In either case, the believer thanks the Lord, so the motive is the same –> “of the Lord”. Whether weak or strong, the motive behind a believer’s decisions about issues of conscience must be to please the Lord.
As this chapter started, Paul comes back to not judging one another. This time he draws our attention to the fact that one day, every knee will bow before Jesus and we will all stand before the Judgement Seat of God…all of us. So, if I and the person I am having an issue with, will have to stand before the perfectly just God of the universe and answer for our life choices, then what business do I have passing judgement on them now…when I have a flawed fleshly sense of justice?
APPLICATION
Since I live in a glass house, it is probably best that I don’t throw stones. I need to remind myself that I have been saved by grace alone…that I actually deserve to spend an eternity in hell for the sin I have and continue to commit toward a Holy and Pure God. Therefore, when it comes to being upset by the way I have been treated, or something I see in someone else that I don’t agree with, I better remind myself what I too will answer for my own shortcomings. Better to just stay in my lane of keeping my focus on thanking the Lord for everything, in every situation, and every circumstance.
