Spiritual Wealth and Sacrificial Discipleship….

28 Peter began to say to him, “See, we have left everything and followed you.” 29 Jesus said, “Truly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands, for my sake and for the gospel, 30 who will not receive a hundredfold now in this time, houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and in the age to come eternal life. 31 But many who are first will be last, and the last first.” Mark 10:28-31

[Spoiler] I have used some of the late John MacArthur’s thoughts on this passage here in my write-up today. His perspective really resonated with me.

True Riches in the Kingdom – In this passage, Jesus is redefining wealth—not in terms of material possessions, but in terms of spiritual blessings and eternal reward. The “hundredfold” promise is interpreted as spiritual family and provision within the body of Christ. We as believers gain a new community and deeper relationships that overcome biological ties.

Persecution Is Part of the Package – Jesus doesn’t sugarcoat the cost of discipleship. The blessings come “with persecutions,” which is a mark of genuine faith and a refining tool in the believer’s life.

Reversal of Earthly Status – The phrase “many who are first will be last, and the last first” is a warning against pride and worldly ambition. This is a call to humility and trust in God’s justice, where the true value of a person is revealed in eternity.

APPLICATION:

There are so many questions from this passage I feel compelled to ask myself!

  • Would I give up my house? — 100% yes. Our home is a gift from the Lord and I take no possession of it. If I felt the Lord leading us to sell it and go into the mission field, I would do it in a heartbeat.
  • Have I left family or my current living location (Washington)? My family means a lot to me but my Lord and Savior means ‘everything’ to me. In this time in my life, I feel called to be there for my mom and dad especially while my mom is battling Alzheimer’s. I am currently living out the command to honor my mother and father by being here close to them.
  • Finally, am I prideful? Yes, is the simple answer. I sometime struggle with selfishness or rights-based expectations. The Lord has brought me a long way in my pursuit to eradicate this from my life, and He has brought me through trials that bring me to the humble realization that He is the only answer; the only One who can bring peace and satisfaction.

Little Children Inherit the Kingdom of God…

13 And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. 14 But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 15 Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” 16 And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them. Mark 10:13-16

This passage is so appropriate today at camp. Tonight PJ Lewis (Middle School Camp Speaker) made a call to all the students to place their belief and trust in Jesus. Leading up to this night, camp chapels have consisted of all of the “I AM” statements. I am the way, I am the gate, I am the good shepherd, etc. PJ laid out the gospel and the character of Jesus so well. He not only covered what Jesus did on the cross for us, but he also covered Who Jesus is for us today. Coming to this passage in Mark today is awesome because I was blessed to spend time with one of the cabins in my Flock Group where 2 boys accepted Jesus into their hearts. I was able to share how they have a new redeemed spirit and the promise of the Helper (Holy Spirit) to come alongside them from this point forward.

The faith and simplicity of a child is how we all need to come to Jesus. It is exactly what Jesus was talking about in these verses — “whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God like a child, shall not enter it”. Kids have this simple innate trust we must embrace when we accept Jesus Christ as our personal Lord and Savior.

There were so many good questions by these Middle Schoolers. I was so impressed with the depth of their inquisitiveness.

APPLICATION:

I need to live everyday with the faith of a small child. Like the little kid sitting on an airplane in turbulence who is watching a movie on their device…totally trusting the pilots and the plane — I need to have trust in my Savior that He wants the best for me in EVERYTHING. That best may not be what I THINK is best for me, but I can walk forward in faith, knowing that the Lord is in sovereign control and as long as I am following Him, He will sustain me until the time set aside for me to meet Him in heaven or in the air.

A Clear Line on Divorce…

2 And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” 3 He answered them, “What did Moses command you?” 4 They said, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away.” 5 And Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. 6 But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
10 And in the house the disciples asked him again about this matter. 11 And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, 12 and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” Mark 10:2-12

There are several places in God’s Word where divorce is addressed, but here is one of the places where Jesus elevates the standard of marriage above the mosaic concessions. Jesus instead points to God’s original intent by pointing to the “two shall become one” and “let no man separate what God has joined together”. Jesus is berating the Pharisees for using scripture to justify divorce, showing them that their hearts were far away from God’s purpose.

Breaking the marital covenant is a serious thing. It is a shame that today, divorce is used to correct an oopsie or ‘unreconcilable differences’. All throughout God’s Word, Love is an action…a state of heart and mind toward another. God emphasizes that spiritual gifts, knowledge, generosity, and even faith are meaningless without love. –> 1 Corinthians 13 tells us all about this. When we bring all of the aspects of Love into even a broken marriage joined by repentance and the goal of glorifying God, anything is possible.

APPLICATION:

I am so grateful for Marianne. We have had some rocky areas in our marriage but our desire to honor and glorify God above all else, has always positioned our hearts in the right orientation toward each other in light of the Gospel. The order is so important, and this order I must embrace every day –> God is my head and I am the head of my wife and family. When I am seeking the Lord with all of my heart, mind, soul, and strength, (and applying to my life all the Lord is teaching me) everything else falls into place.

Fire Punishes and it Purifies…

49 For everyone will be salted with fire. 50 Salt is good, but if the salt has lost its saltiness, how will you make it salty again? Have salt in yourselves and be at peace with one another.” Mark 9:49-50

July 16 – 20, Marianne, Sophie, Prim, and Brooklyn will all be at Canyon Hills Middle School Camp @ Miracle Ranch in Purdy, WA. Marianne and I will be “Flock Leaders” all week, serving and caring for several Cabin Leaders. We are so looking forward to this time with the Middle School students and coming alongside this Cabin Leaders who sacrifice so much to be there. My Quiet Time posts will be pretty short and sweet and most of them will come rapid-fire as I will post most of the days on Sunday. Cellular Data connections are horrid at camp.

This passage in Mark is one that is kind of tough to understand. What’s interesting is that Jesus talks about 3 different aspects of salt.

  1. Everyone will be salted with fire. – This has a couple of potential meanings (or both). If we link it with the previous verses, then Jesus is talking about Judgement. However, if we look at it in light of the following verses, it is more about purification or sanctification of our lives as followers of Jesus. I tend to think Jesus is referring to both and the ‘being salted with fire’ is a cleansing…whether that is as an unbeliever or a justified/redeemed follower of Christ.
  2. Salt is good, but how do you make unsalty salt, salty again? – Different commentators have different thoughts on this but when I look at this passage applied to my own life, here is my take-away -> The seasoning of Jesus in my life makes me a preservative and “bringer of good news” to the world around me. I can become unsalty by being distracted by other books and authors say which can keep me out of His Word and what the Lord is revealing to me through it. I must stay salty by keeping my nose in God’s Word and prayerfully supplicating with Him every day.
  3. Have salt in yourselves and be at peace with one another. – Jesus calls on the disciples to have peaceful, harmonious relationships among themselves. In Old Testament times, salt was also seen as a symbol when entering into covenants with each other. I think it fits well in that while we look to encourage each other and hold each one accountable, we need to do that with Grace and Love so that we can grow each other up without cutting each other down.

APPLICATION:

I must be deliberate about being the salt of the earth God wants me to be. I also need to welcome the cleansing fire of trials. I need to pivot from feeling ‘hit’ to ‘what does God want to teach me in this’.

Radical Amputation Will Save My Life

Mark 9:43-48
43 And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire. 45 And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life lame than with two feet to be thrown into hell. 47 And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell, 48 ‘where their worm does not die and the fire is not quenched.

This passage follows the warning to not cause another brother or sister in Christ to sin. This pretty much says that it is better to die a death of drowning than cause others to sin. Then Jesus goes on to talk about the “would be betters” of our own temptations to sin.

HANDS:

For some of us, it is the work of our hands that gets us into trouble, the desires of our material selves. Or it might be the addiction to work and all the choices we make to support that addiction.

FEET:

For others it is where we go and who we allow ourselves to be surrounded by, or even our environment/circumstances we allow, that can be hot beds for us to say “Yes” or “Just this one time” to sinful desires. This can even include self-isolation where we entertain self-loathing or other behavior that seeks pity, people-pleasing, pride, or encourages our selfish thoughts and feelings.

EYES:

Even more will be lured by the flesh of the eyes, the lust of women/men, the brain-rot of “slinging reels” or other avenues of time waste and windows for sin into our souls.

Each of these is followed by the “Better to be <maimed, crippled, or with only one eye> than find yourself in the Lake of Fire for Eternity” where the fire never goes out, nothing ever dies, and anguish is constant. I really like how the amplified talks about the maimed, crippled, or one-eyed “life”.

“It is more profitable and wholesome for you to go into life [that is really worthwhile] maimed…crippled…with one eye”

APPLICATION:

Do I allow opportunities to sin by my willful disregard of the things, places, or circumstances I know to be dangerous territory for me?

  • Slinging “reels” as a way to “RELAX”?
  • Cigars that can lead to more nicotine products?
  • Alcoholic beverages that lead to more alcoholic beverages “to become relaxed”?
  • Hanging out with that friend who has a twisted sense of humor that goes too far… where I am tempted to participate.

The biggest question I can ask myself is —

“Is King Jesus alone enough for me? If the answer is yes, then I must seek to choose the most Christ honoring and glorifying path.”

Drowning Alive is Better than Leading Someone into Sin

Mark 9:42
42 “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.”

To incline someone to sin == “to cause to fall”

To entice, trap, or lead a believer into sin is a serious matter.

A millstone was so heavy that it had to be turned by a donkey or an ox.

Even such a horrifying death (a gentile form of execution) is preferrable to leading another Christian into sin.

Romans 14:21 “It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or TO DO ANYTHING ELSE that will cause a brother to tall.”

This is in primary reference to causing a person who struggles w/ alcohol or a person who has a conviction about eating meat sacrificed to idols, but Paul quickly applies this to ANYTHING that would cause a brother or sister in Christ to fall/stumble.

APPLICATION:

Anything I do that could cause someone else to stumble into sin because of my participation in it…has to go. [This verse is a command by Jesus]

One Year – All In or All Out

Mark 9:39-41:
38 John said to him, “Teacher, we saw someone casting out demons in your name, and we tried to stop him, because he was not following us.”
39 But Jesus said, “Do not stop him, for no one who does a mighty work in my name will be able soon afterward to speak evil of me.
40 For the one who is not against us is for us.
41 For truly, I say to you, whoever gives you a cup of water to drink because you belong to Christ will by no means lose his reward.”

It’s been almost 1 year since I last posted and the Lord has done so much in my life and the life of our family! The biggest reason I am back is because the Lord, in His mercy and grace, as afforded me a job change at Microsoft that reduced my stress and workload considerably. For that reason, I am able to start posting my quiet times again!

I was finishing Ephesians and now I am going verse by verse through the gospel of Mark.

There is no NEUTRALITY with JESUS (Revelation 3:15-16)

1.) Luke 11:23 — Whoever is not with me, is against me

2.) Mark 9:40 — Whoever is not against me, is with me.

((Not against me is all-encompassing)) – When I am for Jesus, every area of my life becomes open game to be transformed into being more like Him.

I AM EITHER ALL-IN WITH JESUS, OR ALL-OUT.

APPLICATION:

  • Does my Life produce enough evidence to convict me of being all in on Jesus?
  • What areas of my heart show a “not all-in” attitude toward Jesus?
  • Not everyone who is committed to Jesus may look like ‘my people’.

That it May Go Well With You…

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.  “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”
Ephesians 6:1-3

We now move onto how children should obey their parents. What I think is beautiful about this passage is that it doesn’t have a timeframe associated with it. I am to follow this as a child of my parents with the exception of “leaving and cleaving” in my covenantal marriage to my wife. Colossians 3:20 has a similar exhortation.

Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.

All throughout the end of chapter 5 and now here in chapter 6, Paul’s ultimate call is for us to do these things because “it pleases the Lord”. The life experiences of our parents and their wisdom continue to help and impact us long into adulthood. I respect my parent’s opinions so much and I reach out to them for those opinions regularly. Now long into my age of account ability, I am responsible to the Lord for the decisions I make, but my thoughtful evaluation of their input has proven to be so beneficial.

Notice that Paul does not give the parents ammo to lord over our children here; it is a call specifically to the children to obey. It would not be honoring to the Lord for me to constantly remind my children of the command; but in our raising up of our family “in the ways of the Lord” will of course cover these aspects of God’s Word; it just shouldn’t be weaponized against them.

We have to assume that children (both boys and girls) were present when Paul’s letter was read to the Ephesian church. They would have been old enough to understand the concept of obeying and something they could embrace. Likewise, for those children who are not of an age to completely consume what is being said requires parents to understand the need for grace in regard to infants and toddlers who are learning what it means to be obedient and respectful of their parents.

The phrase “in the Lord” in Ephesians 6:1 simply means that children should obey their parents as part of their duty to God. It does not imply infant baptism or that children are full members of the community. The focus is on the relationship between children and their parents, emphasizing obedience because these are the parents given to them by the Lord. The term “in the Lord” refers to the verb “obey.” The verb “timaō” means to honor or respect someone. In this verse, it suggests a continuous attitude of respect, not just simple obedience. It means having a deep, personal regard for parents. This command is common in the New Testament and is a key part of Jewish culture.

This commandment is the first of the Ten Commandments that comes with a promise. It promises a long life in the land for those who obey it. This is important because it shows how we should treat others, while the first four commandments focus on our relationship with God. Paul expands this promise to mean a long life on earth for everyone, not just the Israelites. However, this promise isn’t guaranteed, as other factors can affect one’s lifespan. The main idea is that respecting parents leads to a peaceful and long life.

Application:

I need to be careful in my home of thrusting this into the faces of my kids (especially when I am frustrated). This danger will become clearer in verse 4 tomorrow. Our little ones are precious gifts to us from God and although He has this command to them, it does not alleviate my responsibility to honor Him in my love and raising of them.

Today’s Psalm:

​ My heart overflows with a pleasing theme;
I address my verses to the king;
my tongue is like the pen of a ready scribe.
Psalms 45:1

Connected to THE Profound Mystery…

“Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”  This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
Ephesians 5:31-32

Yesterday I left off on Paul talking about how our marriage is to reflect the relationship between Christ and the body of the church. I was making the assertion that Paul might be saying that ‘our marriage’, in itself, is a member of the church body. Well, these next 2 verses continue to reinforce that.

Through verse 31 (Genesis 2:24), God breaks the act of marriage into three parts. First, it shows a man forming a new family unit by leaving his parents, which in ancient times was more about care and oversight than physical location. Next, it describes the man joining his wife, symbolizing the new family unit. Finally, it talks about becoming one flesh, highlighting the unique union that sex creates when a man and woman come together. BUT, God is saying that it is more than this and follows up verse 31 with what that it is. It is a mystery how this oneness can be true. It’s almost like Paul is wrestling with how to describe something indescribable.

The mystery is this aspect of oneness about marriage, but it is connected to the greater mystery of Christ’s relationship and the church. Christ is the God Son of the trinity, yet He is God. When I accepted Jesus as my personal Lord and Savior, I became one with Him and He with me. When God the Father looks at me, He sees the spotlessness of His Son. When I look at what happens when a group of believers comes together in the name of the Son, we see the hand of God move in powerful ways. What Paul is saying is that marriage is like this great mystery of the church’s relationship with Christ.

The Mystery is that there are aspects of Christ’s relationship with the church, and the connectedness we have with our wives that are unseen and our feeble human brains can’t see the who picture of how profound this mystery is. This is why sex within marriage is the only acceptable place for sexual intimacy to happen. The act of a sexual union bonds us to our spouse in ways that are not entirely understood by us. It is why God designed it this way.

Application:

I need to keep pursuing how God would use my marriage and oneness with Marianne for the work of His Kingdom through ministry and service to Him. One of the ways we are doing that now is by pursuing all the knowledge we can to counsel others toward the answers in God’s word. We have completed both the Foundations and Observation classes and are in the middle of working through the Theology of Biblical Counseling. I know that God has so much more for us.

Today’s Psalm:

All this has come upon us,
though we have not forgotten you,
and we have not been false to your covenant.
Our heart has not turned back,
nor have our steps departed from your way
Psalms 44:17-18

Loving Your Wife is Worshipping Jesus…

In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.  For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. 
Ephesians 5:28-30

Different than what wives called to do in submission, the ‘should’ in verse 28 is more of a call of obligation. “Husbands SHOULD love their wives”. The comparison with Christ’s model deepens the obligation: in doing this, they do it like and for him. It is a form of worship to live this way. The connection to Jesus enforces the point. This is the same thought that God uses in Leviticus when describing how we should love our neighbor…our wives being our closest neighbors.

You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
Leviticus 19:18

Paul’s message is about love and care in marriage, not about control. He stresses that a wife is part of her husband, so marriage shouldn’t be a power struggle. Both partners are responsible to God for their actions in the marriage. The husband should love his wife because it’s his duty to God, and the wife should submit because it’s her duty to God. This means they should work together and aim for harmony, even if they don’t always agree. When I listen to Marianne, it’s like listening to a part of myself and maybe even hearing God through her. The idea is that we’re a team, working together as one. This isn’t about loving yourself, but about giving love for something bigger than just you. This shows my wife is equal to me, not lower, and is a part of me.

Seeing Marianne as part of my identity affects all aspects of our relationship. This makes marriage special. The phrase “not hating” means there shouldn’t be any alienation or hostility in our life together. The term “nourishes” (ektrephō) means nurturing, like raising a child. The term “cherishes” (thalpō) means giving comfort or warmth. This is the kind of care Jesus showed, not just by sacrificing himself to cleanse the church, but also by continuing to care for it.

Application:

The biggest take away I have from this is that we normally think of ourselves (husbands and wives) as members of Body of Christ…but here it says ‘we’ are members of the church body. What if, as the head of my marriage, saw our marriage oneness as a member of the Body of Christ? Now not only am I thinking about how I think and act as Christ living in me and I in Him but now I relate to how ‘we’ think, act, and behave as a member of the church body. The more I think about this the more I feel that this is Paul’s intent on connecting the Body of Christ and the ‘Oneness’ of our marital covenant.

Today’s Psalm:

In God we have boasted continually,
and we will give thanks to your name forever.
Psalms 44:8